The Outfit That Carries Me Through My Chaos

Because life is messy, but I don’t have to look like it.

Let’s get one thing straight, babe: I do not always have my sh*t together. Mentally? In shambles. Spiritually? Vibing. But aesthetically? You will never catch me slipping — because this outfit, my go-to, my chaotic-girl uniform, carries me through literally everything.

Starbs run? Yup.

Mall with the girls? Obviously.

Quick office drop-in or running errands where I might run into my ex’s cousin’s best friend who still stalks my Insta? Absolutely.

This is the formula. The fit that hugs me when my life won’t. And no, none of this is sponsored (but brands, if you’re reading this... my inbox is open).

Some of these pieces are investments, yes, but let’s not act brand new — spending $$ on versatile, high-quality basics> blowing it all on a one-time-wear club dress that smells like tequila and regret.

1. The Base: Pretty Panties + Bra That Actually Feels Good

Because if you’re wearing ugly underwear, what are you doing?

Option 1: The “Soft Princess” Set

• Bra: Dream Angels Wicked Unlined Lace Balconette Bra in Purest Pink (CA$59.95)

• Panty: Dream Angels Lace Thong Panty in Purest Pink (CA$25.95)

This set? Lethal. She’s baby pink, she’s delicate, she’s feminine — and the lace doesn’t make me itch (!!!). It’s unlined, which gives that effortless, romantic shape without the push-up trauma. And the little rose detail in the middle? KILLS ME. Not for the boys. Not for the gaze. Just for me and my delulu feminine energy.

Option 2: The Everyday Angel

• Bra: PINK Wink Lightly Lined Balconette Bra in Coconut White (CA$54.95)

• Panty: PINK Wink V-String Panty in Coconut White (CA$16.95)

Slightly cheaper, super cute, and perfect for when you want shape without stuffing your chest like a Build-A-Bear. The coconut white lace is so clean girl coded, and white undies? Iconic under anything, especially if you're going monochrome.

I wear this when I want to feel hot and like I might organize my life.

2. The Uniform: Monochrome That Slays + Feels Like Pyjamas

This is for when you want to look like you tried, but actually rolled out of bed 20 mins ago and are powered by caffeine, manifesting, and audacity.

The Fit:

• Leggings: Aritzia Golden BUTTER Cheeky Infinite Hi-Rise 28” Legging (CA$78)

• Tee: Aritzia Golden BUTTER Essential T-Shirt (CA$50)

  
  

  Fave colours: Dayflower Blue, Villa Pink, Turner Taupe.

Golden Butter is not a want, it’s a need. These leggings are soft soft — like second-skin soft. They don’t slide down, they snatch your waist just right, and paired with the matching fitted tee? BABE. It’s an outfit. It’s a moment. It’s off-duty Pilates princess, even if you haven't worked out since 2022.

Layer It:

• Sweatshirt: Aritzia Cozy Sweatfleece Boyfriend Zip Hoodie – Heather Cloud White (CA$98)

This hoodie is heaven. The perfect white — not blinding white, not yellowy, just heather cloud. It’s neutral enough to throw over any look, gives “borrowed from my hot boyfriend” vibes, and makes your monochrome slay feel effortlessly layered.

Bonus: doubles as a blanket at brunch when the AC is out for blood.

3. Sneakers That Say “I Have Places to Be”

Even when those places are Sephora, Zara, and my therapist.

New Balance 530 – White/Grey (CA$130)

or for my small-foot girlies: Kid’s Version (CA$90)

Yes, they’re trendy. Yes, I made fun of them too. But once I put them on? Changed my life. They're actually comfortable (like all-day errand comfy), give you a little platform lift, and somehow work with literally any colour palette.

They’re the “I’ve got sh*t to do” shoe. The main character walking through the grocery store like it’s a runway shoe.

4. The Bag That Does It All

Because if I’m only spending on one bag, it better give rich girl aesthetic.

Coach Tabby Shoulder Bag 26 – Brass/Chalk (CA$550)

Listen. I know. I KNOW she’s expensive. But this is a forever bag. She’s the right size — fits all your essentials without looking bulky. The white leather + gold hardware? Stunning. Goes with everything. She makes you look put together even if you’re spiraling internally.

Not ready to splurge? That’s okay babe. Any cute nude/white purse will do. Amazon, Winners, that one random boutique in the mall — you do you. Just make sure it matches your vibe and can fit lip gloss, keys, and existential dread.

5. The Cherry On Top

Here’s how I pull it together:

• Jewelry: Dainty gold hoops, rings, or layered necklaces. Effortless. Feminine. You already know.

• Hair: Slicked-back pony or loose curls that took 10 mins but look like 45.

• Makeup: Glowy, soft, elevated. (Peep The Glow Edit if you want my holy grails.)

• Scent: Your signature. Bonus if it smells like vanilla, fresh laundry, and confidence.

• Energy: Delusional main character. Always.

TL;DR — But Make It Chic

When life feels like a fever dream, this outfit makes me feel put together, soft, and unbothered. It’s comfy, flattering, easy to mix-and-match, and works whether I’m facing capitalism or just need to romanticize a Tuesday.

Don’t underestimate the power of a good base, a clean silhouette, and a monochrome moment. And remember — it's not about how expensive the piece is, it’s about how it makes you feel.

So next time you see me at the café, sipping my iced brown sugar shaken espresso, wearing this outfit like I own the place… just know: I probably do.

Keep them guessing, Always.

xoxo, Bella James.